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September 07, 2006

Real Crocodile Tears

It's wonderful how some people touch many during their time here on earth. This week it's been remarkable how many of my friends have expressed shock & sadness at the death of Steve Irwin, The Crocodile Hunter. He was a beloved figure in the western world. Kids & adults were drawn to the spunky Aussie who loved wild animals & thrilled to teach us about them whether they were sweet or cuddly or not. Ya just had to love the guy, no matter what nutso thing he was doing! His passion was utterly compelling. Utterly.

He leaves behind 2 darling little children, a wife who adored him & a father who stated he's "lost his best mate". That part has been bringing tears to my eyes each time I think of it. What a lovely, lovely thing for a child & a parent to forge an adult friendship. It's one of my greatest goals in the midst of the rigors of this child rearing gig. Steve Irwin was, by all accounts, a man who loved well and was well loved. You cannot say that about many folks. But this recent turn of events has reminded me I want that said of me one day & of my children, as well. I want to make choices that foster a life well lived & educate/inspire my daughters to do the same. Steve Irwin seemed to have admirably accomplished that in his 44 yrs here, in addition to all the wonderful educating work he contributed. The guy had the full vegemite sandwich (Aussie for whole enchilada). It's beautifully encouraging to the rest of us.

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July 31, 2006

Hello Kitty

A couple years ago I did a lot of research & decided Cavalier King Charles Spaniels would fit our family. It's a fabulous breed & they weren't too big or yappy. Wouldn't pets teach the girls neat things? So we got a couple. And they were darlings. I knew puppies were tough, but hey, my baby was already two... It was entirely grueling to potty-train 3 at once. We loved the little guys but when a dear friend who'd lost her beloved cocker offered to take them, we conceded. We missed them but they got the home of every dog's dreams. So when the girls started saying they wanted a kitten, I got nervous. I feared we were pet failures. But every kid deserves a loving pet, so I began fresh research being cautious about my older daughter's allergies. I discovered a breed that was warm, sweet & had lovely fur that didn't shed everywhere. We fell in love with the funky little faces & loving demeanors of Scottish Fold cats. http://breedlist.com/scottish-fold-breeders.html

An amazing thing happened after we got our baby, we found he fit so nicely into our family. We travel frequently & it was easy to work out either taking him or arranging care. Much easier than the puppies who required expensive boarding or being let out. To our delight, we discovered we are a kitty family! Who knew?! Clara Grace, my oldest, sleeps with him snuggled by her feet. Both girls (& their visiting friends) adore the little guy. It's so cool to see them learn about the special kind of unconditional love a pet offers. Often he'll come into the room we're in & lie on his little back with his paws in the air & sleep peacefully like a little Buddah. He's never been snitty or skittish. He's never scratched in frustration. Not even the 4 yr old who hugs & croons to him everytime she sees him. We decided she needed her own snuggler, so we began our search for the right baby.

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